Avoid debt if you can.
If you can't, borrow carefully and conservatively.
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So the conventional wisdom goes. But if you follow it blindly, you may miss 
out on key nuances of dealing with debt.
For instance, consider store-brand credit cards. They often offer no-interest 
financing, and rewards on store-bought products. Sounds great. But did you know 
those attractive financing terms can come back to bite if you carry a balance 
after a promotional period?
Then there's mortgage debt. A big down payment may be a great way to steer 
clear of a huge home loan. But if you get the money for the down payment from 
relatives, lenders may scrutinize your financials closely.
As many people look to rebuild credit or land loans, it's crucial to know 
when the conventional wisdom makes sense—and when it doesn't. With that in mind, 
here are some top myths that consumers fall victim to when borrowing today.
1. Once you marry, you're responsible for your spouse's debt.
Many couples think marrying each other means merging their debt loads, but 
that generally is not the case. While many couples opt to pay down debt 
together, neither spouse is usually legally obligated to pay off debt that the 
other incurred before marriage, says John Ulzheimer, president of consumer 
education at credit-monitoring service SmartCredit.com.
However, be aware that a spouse could lose that protection. If you refinance 
a loan with your significant other and put your name on the loan's promissory 
note, or add yourself as a joint account holder of a credit card, you'll likely 
become responsible for those debts, even if your spouse took them on before 
marriage, he says.
Know also that you may be responsible for debt your spouse takes on 
after you wed, even if your name isn't on the account.
2. Credit cards from your favorite retailers are a good deal.
The pitches for store-branded credit cards can sound enticing, with lures 
like interest-free financing and rewards. But the deals may be much less 
appealing if you tend to carry a balance.
Some of the cards operate like payment plans where borrowers make a purchase 
from the retailer on the card and then have a number of months to pay it back, 
interest-free. But if you don't pay off the whole balance in the allotted time, 
you'll typically have to pay interest on the entire amount you initially charged 
retroactively—often at a higher rate than a typical credit card, says Odysseas 
Papadimitriou, chief executive of credit-card comparison website CardHub.com. 
For instance, Apple offers customers up to 18 months interest-free on 
purchases on a card from Barclaycard US. But if you don't pay off that specific 
purchase in the interest-free period, you'll face a variable annual percentage 
rate that's currently about 23%, according to the Apple website.
Other cards don't offer deferred interest, but come with fairly high rates, 
says Ben Woolsey, director of marketing and consumer research at 
CreditCards.com. "Even somebody with excellent credit will be paying 20-plus 
percent," he says. For instance, the two cards offered through Banana Republic 
have variable rates recently at 24% and 25%, higher than the recent average rate 
of 15% on all variable-rate cards.
3. You're too rich for federal student loans.
Some well-off families figure they won't qualify for federal aid and don't 
apply. But that means they may have to turn to private loans instead. In recent 
years, as many as 41% of families earning $100,000 or more didn't file the Free 
Application for Federal Student Aid, or FAFSA, which is necessary to land 
federal loans, according to a Sallie Mae survey.
But passing up on that chance can be a mistake.
For one thing, well-off parents and students 
can get federal loans, 
as a number of them have no income limits. And private loans can come with 
higher rates than federal loans, or variable rates that could very well rise in 
coming years. Another key drawback: Private loans generally don't offer the 
flexible repayment plans, tied to a student's income, that federal ones may.
If that's not convincing enough, consider that even private lenders recommend 
that you consider federal loans in the college-funding process, no matter what 
your income. "We encourage students to explore Stafford loans, which may have 
lower rates, and to compare options, such as PLUS loans and private loans, to 
fill any remaining unmet need," says Patricia Nash Christel, a spokeswoman for 
Sallie Mae, the largest private lender.
4. Dutifully paying off your mortgage each month will do wonders for your 
credit score.
The typical scoring model from FICO, standard bearer of the credit score, 
will cut your score for missing mortgage payments. But don't expect to get a lot 
of points added to your score for making those monthly payments on time.
That's because, in FICO's models, missed payments say more about your 
riskiness than regular on-time payments do.
"Negative information can be very influential, positive information helps 
your score more incrementally," says Frederic Huynh, senior principal scientist 
at FICO.
5. Money from a family member makes an easy down payment on a home.
Even if people don't buy a home entirely with cash, they're being more 
careful to put down big down payments. And often that means turning to family 
members for money.
But those kinds of gifts may set off red flags for 
lenders. With much tighter lending standards than before the crash, banks are 
looking closely at where the money for your down payment came from, says Erin 
Lantz, director of real-estate firm 
Zillow's 
Z +5.17%Mortgage Marketplace.
Some lenders want to see that any gift for a down payment has been in your 
bank account for a significant period of time, and most want to see that its 
origin is documented, says Ms. Lantz. "What the lender would ask for is the 
whole path of that money. Where did that money come from? How did it come into 
your account? What has it been doing in your account? Has it been sitting 
there?" says Ms. Lantz. You'll also want a letter from the person who gave you 
the money, stating it was a gift.
And make sure you have documentation showing the money going from one account 
to the other, says John Prom, a mortgage banker at Real Estate Mortgage Network 
Inc. in New York.
6. Today's tight lending criteria apply to auto loans too.
Lending criteria for mortgages remain tight. But standards for car loans are 
comparatively looser. A January Federal Reserve survey of senior bank-lending 
officers found 16% reporting they had eased standards for making auto loans in 
the preceding three months—compared with 6% for prime residential mortgages.
That's in part because auto loans come with lower delinquency rates and are 
therefore less risky, says Greg McBride, senior financial analyst at 
Bankrate.com.
"For most people, the rates are the lowest they've ever been. Anyone with 
decent credit is going to get a loan at a lower rate than they've ever seen 
before," he says. But you'll want to shop around, as rates can vary widely, even 
for those with good credit, he says.
7. If you agree to separate your debt in a divorce, it's separate.
While a legally binding divorce decree is an important step in separating 
marital debts, it does not alter your agreements with lenders, says Rod Griffin, 
director of public education at Experian. "People think: I went through the 
divorce, I have the decree, why is [the joint debt] still there?" he says.
What you'll need to do is call the lender and figure out how the joint 
debt—whether it's a credit card, student loan or mortgage—can be placed in the 
name of only one ex-spouse.
Sometimes, a lender will require you to close the joint account and transfer 
the debt balance into a new account held by one individual. Other times, an 
ex-spouse may need to refinance the mortgage or other loan independently, 
obtaining the new loan based on his or her own financials, he says.
8. A high income and credit score means you'll be pitched the lowest 
interest rates on credit cards.
Credit-card companies and issuers are currently sending bevies of offers to 
affluent people with good credit. The rewards on some of those cards—like cash 
back and airline points—can look appealing. But they often come with higher 
interest rates than the lowest-rate cards, with or without rewards, says Mr. 
Woolsey of CreditCards.com.
The lowest-rate rewards cards go for around 11%, while the typical higher-end 
rewards card, like the Visa Black Card, carries a rate around 15%, says Mr. 
Woolsey. Plus, the higher-end cards usually have annual fees.
Meanwhile, the lowest-rate cards 
without rewards go for between 
7.25% and 8.00% APR, says Mr. Woolsey. Of course, affluent folks can qualify for 
those low-interest cards—but card companies and issuers won't usually pitch them 
as hard.
9. If you've looked up your credit score, you know your credit score.
You know 
one credit score. The problem is that lenders may be 
looking at a different credit score than you are—and there's no easy way for you 
to know if it's better or worse.
Consider the widely used FICO score. There are actually 60 slightly different 
iterations of FICO, and lenders may pull a different score depending on what 
kind of credit you're applying for, says Mr. Huynh.
If you're applying for a mortgage backed by Fannie Mae or Freddie Mac, 
lenders typically pull three FICO scores available directly from each of the 
three major credit bureaus. But if you're applying for an auto loan or credit 
card, the company will likely pull a score tailor-made for that kind of credit 
product, says Mr. Ulzheimer.
While the various FICO scores are usually in a similar range, that's not 
always the case. For instance, certain scores ignore collections below $100. In 
some cases, a person's FICO score that falls into this category could be 100 
points above a score that doesn't ignore such collections, says Mr. Huynh.
10. A late credit-card payment will damage your credit.
Late payments can bring fees and interest charges—but unless you're 
really late, they may not put a dent in your credit.
"There will be consequences, but they won't be on your credit report," says 
Mr. Griffin of Experian.
It comes down to standard practice in the credit-reporting business: 
companies usually don't report a late payment to a credit agency until your 
payment is 30 days past due.
It takes time for other kinds of late payments to hit your credit report, 
too. Medical debt, for instance, usually won't show up until the bill goes to 
collection, says Mr. Griffin.
11. All mortgage and home-equity interest is deductible.
Deducting interest is one of the big appeals of a home loan. But if your 
mortgage is 
too big, you won't be able to deduct all of the interest 
you paid.
The federal government has set a cap on the mortgage-interest deduction: You 
can generally only deduct interest on mortgages up to $1 million. So, if your 
mortgage is $2 million, you can typically deduct only half of the interest 
paid.
The typical threshold is even lower on home-equity debt: $100,000.
But if you're using some of that home equity for significant home 
improvements, that portion usually falls under the $1 million cap for mortgage 
interest instead, says Jeremy Kisner, a certified financial planner and 
president of SureVest Capital Management in Phoenix.
12. Buying a home with cash is the best option, if you have the money.
Covering a home purchase with cash is in vogue. With the housing market 
heating up, the tactic may help a buyer win a bidding war—and the idea of not 
living under a mortgage can be appealing.
But going with cash isn't always the best financial choice. Mortgage-interest 
payments can be deducted on your tax return, which can save you a bundle. 
Then there's the opportunity cost of handing over that much money. Some 
people prefer to invest the money they would have spent on the home purchase, 
betting it will earn a higher return than the interest rate on the mortgage when 
considering the tax deduction, says Jimmy Lee, a financial adviser in Las Vegas, 
Nev.
Ms. Ensign is a staff 
reporter in The Wall Street Journal's New York bureau. She can be reached at rachel.ensign@wsj.com.