Monday, December 10, 2012

They told me who they were did I believe them? My kick ass coach

When Someone Tells You Who They Are, Believe Them

by Vicki Garcia on November 14, 2012

Black cat looking at goldfish in bowl Why, when a person shows us or even tells us in their own words who they are, do we choose not to believe them? Don’t you know you better than anyone else?
*If a person lies to you repeatedly, they are showing you who they are.
*If a person always has a reason they cannot see you, they are telling you who they are and what you mean to them.
*When someone is repeatedly late to meet you, they are showing you who they are.
*When someone says mean or hurtful things to your face but smiles while doing it, they are showing you who they are.
*If someone says, “oh, that’s just who I am”, they are telling you the truth!
Believe it when a person shows you who they are. Stop with the excuses and stories and justifications for bad behavior. It’s them, not YOU!

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