When Someone Tells You Who They Are, Believe Them
Why, when a person shows us or even tells us in their own words who they are,
do we choose not to believe them? Don’t you know you better than anyone
else?*If a person lies to you repeatedly, they are showing you who they are.
*If a person always has a reason they cannot see you, they are telling you who they are and what you mean to them.
*When someone is repeatedly late to meet you, they are showing you who they are.
*When someone says mean or hurtful things to your face but smiles while doing it, they are showing you who they are.
*If someone says, “oh, that’s just who I am”, they are telling you the truth!
Believe it when a person shows you who they are. Stop with the excuses and stories and justifications for bad behavior. It’s them, not YOU!
November 14, 2012 at 12:08 pm
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SO true. I find myself having this conversation frequently with clients – especially when it comes to romantic relationships. I’d add that people also SHOW us with their actions – when actions don’t align with words, I say pay attention to the actions!
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