Friday, March 1, 2013

Helping others transforms your life Keith F

Keith Ferrazzi

Helping others is transformative. On a recent episode of our Social Capitalist podcast, Keith Ferrazzi explained how he personally experiences that transformation, and why it has led to a life-long commitment to service.
Sitting with a kid who’s hungry, who’s giggling and loving his life because you’re there … that’s life changing. Being of service to a human, sitting with a homeless person and hearing their story, you know, even if they’re ranting because they’re on drugs — sitting and being empathetic is what changes us.
That’s what allows me as a leader to sit in a room and hear the criticism of my leadership skills. And that’s what allows me, when I can get the noise out of my head about the success, or the lack of success, or the growth, with the impact and the numbers — when I clear that out and there’s a person sitting in front of me, and I’m connecting with that person … you know, that Bill Clinton-esque capacity to stand with someone in a cocktail party, and the world melts and that person thinks that Bill Clinton is just focused on him, because he is? I don’t think I’d have that ability —I’m too worried I’m too scarcity-minded to have that deep connection and empathy — if I didn’t do these things.
This work is my training to be the kind of human I want to be. I’m not doing it as much as I should, which is why I will never give up doing this work.”
To download the full transcript of Keith’s podcast on The Power of Giving, click here. To listen to this and other Social Capitalist podcasts, download them at Itunes.

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