Thursday, January 2, 2014

Ideas of how to stick to resolutions

Menu of Ideas to Help You to Stick to Your New Year’s Resolutions
Do you make New Year's resolutions?
They're fun to make, but hard to keep.
In fact, about 80% of resolution-makers abandon their resolutions by mid-February.
But one thing I’ve learned from my happiness project: keeping resolutions is a key to happiness. If you want to make a positive change in your life, you need to figure out what to resolve, and how to keep that resolution.
1. Most important: Be specific. People often make abstract resolutions: “Be more optimistic,” “Find more joy in life,” “Aim high.” Instead, look for a specific, measurable action. “Distract myself with fun music when I’m feeling gloomy,” “Watch at least one movie each week,” “Make one cold-call each morning” are resolutions that will carry you toward those abstract goals.
According to the Journal of Clinical Psychology, top resolutions for 2013 included resolutions such as “Help others in their dreams” and “Staying fit and healthy.” What does this mean, exactly? Monday morning, what will you do differently?
2. Write it down.
3. Review your resolution constantly. If your resolution is buzzing through your head, it’s easier to stick to it. I review my Resolutions Chart every night.
4. Hold yourself accountable. Accountability is the secret to sticking to resolutions--and if you're an Obliger, it's absolutely critical. That’s why groups like AA and Weight Watchers are effective. There are many ways to hold yourself accountable; for example, I keep my Resolutions Chart. Or you might want to join or launch a Happiness Project group. You might hire a trainer or a coach exchange daily updates with a friend. Accountability is one reason that #1 is so important. If your resolution is too vague, it’s hard to measure whether you’re keeping it. A resolution to “Eat healthier” is harder to track than “Eat salad for lunch three times a week.”
5. Consider making pleasant resolutions. We can make our lives happier in many ways. If you’ve been trying to get yourself to do something challenging, with no success, try resolving to “Go to more movies,” “Read for two hours every Saturday,” or whatever resolutions you’d find fun to keep. Seeing more movies might make it easier to keep going to the gym. It’s a Secret of Adulthood: If you want to ask a lot from yourself, it helps to give a lot to yourself.
6. Consider giving up a resolution. If you keep making and breaking a resolution, consider whether you should relinquish it entirely. Put your energy toward changes that are both realistic and helpful. Don’t let an unfulfilled resolution to lose twenty pounds or to overhaul your overgrown yard block you from making other, smaller resolutions that might give you a big happiness boost.
7. Keep your resolution every day. Weirdly, it’s often easier to do something every day (exercise, post to a blog, deal with the mail, do laundry) than every few days.
What else? What are some strategies you’ve discovered, to help you stick to your New Year’s resolutions?
Every year, popular resolutions include aims such as “Spend more time with family,” “Help others in their dreams,” and “Fall in love.” These resolutions demonstrate the importance of relationships to our happiness. If you’d like to strengthen your relationships in 2014, consider taking the free 21 Day Relationship Challenge. Read about it here.
Or, along the lines of other popular resolutions, you can try "Know yourself better," "Quit yelling at your kids," or "De-clutter your home and life." These 21 Day Projects give lots of ideas about how to make concrete, manageable changes.
Being happier can seem like an elusive, complicated goal, but by taking little steps, you can change your life for the happier. I am still amazed by what a difference my happiness project has made in my happiness.
Alan Russell



  • Flag and HideBert Walker
    Bert Walker
    Student at RCC
    Change is hard, especially as we age. We get set in our ways. But, much like a truck that is stuck in a mud rut, if you're going to change direction, there's going to be some hard work involved, and probably a shovel. And some logging chain. And, some heavy wire rope. And a winch. Setting new goals is great, but just like if you were going to drag a truck out of the mud, dragging your life out of an established and set pattern of behaviors, is going to require change at the top. You need to mentally evaluate your current set of circumstances, and figure out what you want to be doing, where you want to be going, and ultimately, what's important, and what's not.

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